Tuesday, February 14, 2023

❤ Valentine's Day Feels ❤

It's Love Day and I am a girl that loves LOVE !

    Valentine's Day has always been a day that I looked forward to and although I had my usual excitement, it also feels a little different this year.

    I remember being in relationships where it meant so much to celebrate Valentine's Day in a big way, but now as I write this I am happily waiting on Anthony to get home so we can split some crab legs and watch movies before bed. My favorite meal and my favorite man, what more could a girl ask for!

    I remember talking to my mom one day in the beginning of our marriage and I told her my life felt boring. I wasn't unhappy, but it just felt like there should be more action going on (or dare I say...drama.) Her exact words were, "Girl, you better enjoy this boring," and I completely get it now.

    The action I was missing was drama because that's all I was used to. Valentine's Day seemed so much more important, when my partner was giving me soooo much less. I was using Valentine's Day to almost 'validate' those relationships, even though deep down I knew those men were trash!! The things I used to literally cry for, I have and then some and can I just say I looooove that for me!

    Wising everyone the love they desire today and everyday! Because being loved properly is the gift that keeps on giving.

Happy Love Day Y'all 💗

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